Majlis Lengang Perut

Perlu ke?

Aku research bukan suke2 sbb xde bende nk buat so carik topik best dan tadaa up entry baru.
tidak tidak.

Tapi sebab mak mentua aku ade ckp aritu, dia nak buat majlis lenggang perut utk aku cum adik ipar aku bertunang.

Aku memule ingat lenggang perut ni sbb adat utk tentukan jantina bayi.

Tapiiii,
ianya lebih dari itu...

Adat ini ialah suatu adat yang dijalankan ke atas seorang isteri yang telah genap tujuh bulan hamil dan ia bertujuan untuk meletakkan kedudukan bayi di dalam perut di tempat yang sepatutnya, iaitu bahagian kepala di pintu rahim. Ini penting bagi memudahkan si ibu bersalin dan bayi tidak kelemasan di dalam perut. Maka pada masa itu, bidan akan dipanggil untuk memeriksa dan menentukan isteri yang hamil itu betul-betul telah genap tujuh bulan hamil atau belum cukup bulan lagi. Jika didapati sudah genap tujuh bulan isteri itu hamil, maka mulailah bidan itu diupah untuk melangsungkan adat melenggang perut ini. 

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Part yg xsedap adalah.

1- Bab hukum tu satu hal. aku ade baca dia bidaah. and lain2 hukum hakam aku xmau cerita. sbb aku ni kategori jahil dan tak layak explain bab hukum.

2- Ni adat kaum hindu.

Part yg lagi xsedap..

Masa bidan tu urut2 perut kau, dikhuatiri budak tu dari elok duduk nye terus terpusing kot mana-mana tah. Lain la kalau sambil bidan pusing sambil machine scan ade kat sebelah tu connected to my tummy.
Ni kang dari elok terus tah mane2 budak tu pegi.
pastu ade satu kes, possibility utk tali pusat baby lilit leher adalah besar. T_T.

eh tapi time mak aku mengandungkan adek aku, xde buat lenggang perut pon, still leher die lilit tali pusat. seb baik x lemas. cume mase adek aku kuar, badan putih tp muka jadi hitam. kahkah.

Ok tambahan.
Aku refer bende ni kat kwn aku yg keje doc tu.n dia ckp
"tak payah la. Even doc check kat hosp pon xde usik kedudukan baby. salah pusing mau terbelit or terputus tali pusat dia."

Scary kan!!

Part yg paling xsedap..

Mcm mane aku nak bitau mak mentua aku bende ni. klu btau bende ni kat husband aku, kompem dia pn xsetuju. tapi kang kalau die btau mak dia, aku takut mak dia kecik ati pulak. dah la laki aku tu anak 1st laki dlm umah tu. so mak die mcm excited la kot.
Adehh. Aku harap maksud melenggang perut mak mentua aku tu hanyalah doa selamat.
eh tapi dia ckp nnt nak panggil bidan datang.

Makkkk org tak mauuuu!!!!

Kalau la dia baca blog aku. kan senang!!.

A little note to m2b.

Aku ada kawan baik yg keje sebagai doctor baru je lepas bersalin.

Masa pegi melawat dia aritu, dia ada pesan n ingat kan aku setiap kali checkup, kalau boleh tanya beberapa perkara penting ni kat doctor.
Ye la kdg2 mmg ade doctor terus bagitau. Tapi incase doctor terlupe, and klu kte nak bagi clear lagi, ape slh nye kan.

Baru sdp sket hati.

1- Kedudukan Uri
2- Position baby
3- Air ketuban ok ke x
4- Heartbeat baby

maybe ade beberapa perkara mcm position baby tu utk mommy yg awl2 trimester, klu kita tanye doc nanti akan cakap, skarang baby keadaan die tak tetap. sebab die tengah active main2.smpai ade satu mase nnti ruang dah sempit mase tu baru leh confirmkan kedudukan baby tu ok atau songsang.

tapi ape slh nye klu tanye je kan. mcm aku, mmg suke bertanya. kdg2 soklan nmpk bodoh. tapi aku nak gak tanye supaya aku puas hati.

And ade satu lagi kawan baik aku jugak, dia pon doctor.

Doctor yg tadi kat Hosp Taiping.
Doctor yg ni lak kat Hosp Sg Buloh.

Dia kata kalau boleh request untuk minum air gula.
even kadang2 private hosp x suruh kte minum pon, tapi just in case.
Request je nk check. sbb sgt2 penting katenye.
In my case, aku tak tau nak ke x request. dah la aku senang muntah klu telan bende yg bukan2 ni.

sbb ibu2 yg xjaga kadar gula dlm badan, boleh akibatkan baby diabetes. ataupon lagi teruk, meninggal dlm perut.

Kes under dia yg dia cerita kt aku.

Mase kandungan 38 weeks 5 days, baby dlm perut meninggal.

sedeh nye ya allah. sbb kesalahan ibu tu sndiri.

peringatan utk aku jugak. jgn mkn byk2 sgt.

Semalam aku da beli roti gandum penuh. konon2 nk mkn time dinner ganti nasik.
Moga dengan niat suci tulus ihlas ni, aku berjaya lah tahan nafsu. kehkeh

Padahal tadi baru blk lunch dgn lisa lisut (weyh rindu name lisa lisut. haha)
makan tak hengat dunia. smpai 18 ringgit set nasi ngn air aku.
minum xnak kalah. bandung soda kauuu.

siap tapau kuih 3 bijik. haha.

mlm ni start xnk kawan ngn nafsu.

Postnatal care set - Nona Roguy

Set Bersalin NR + Bengkung - RM 310.

Ok ni pon mcm tadi jugak. Aku list kan mane2 yg menarik perhatian aku je. 1st choice harus Set tanamera tapi since review byk gak kat set NR ni bagus, so sbb tu aku consider jugak. Ayuh kita lihat siapa yg berjaya menarik perhatian aku nanti.

Bwh ni 3 list yg aku tertarik. biasa la bab2 menguruskan badan mmg menjadi topik utama. Tapi num 1 and 2 tu ade gak kat set tanamera yg aku list kan sebentar tadi. cuma yg num 3 tu je set NR ni menang. ade advantage utk menggalakkan susu ibu. still thinking..

1) Phyto Natal 90 tablet - digunakan untuk mengurangkan berat badan ke tahap ideal , menguatkan badan serta menstabilkan hormon.

2) Minyak Herbanika 100ml  -berfungsi mempercepatkan penyembuhan luka jahitan, sakit otot sendi serta melancarkan peredaran darah.

3) Akar Herbanika 10 t-bag disyorkan diminum bersama madu yang berfungsi melawaskan pembuangan air kecil ,memperbanyak susu ibu serta mengurangkan keletihan.

Tapi aku rasa mcm tertarik kat Set Tanamera. sebab bab susu tu nanti leh makan supplement dari shaklee ye tak??. hehe. 

nanti bila da cukup ilmu utk present supplement dari shaklee yg sesuai utk ibu yg menyusu, aku tepek lah. sekarang ilmu masih zero.

Postnatal care set - Tanamera

masih tengah survey beberapa postnatal care set.

dalam mind aku sekarang ade dua.

 1) Tanamera

 2) Nona Roguy

**entry ini khas untuk tanamera:

Tanamera postnatal care set. - RM 360

 

- First choice. review pon ok. since die xde jamu n insyaallah x effect utk mom yg breastfeed. yg paling bekenan review psl coconut oil die yg boleh di sapu dkt 'jln kuar baby tu' sebelum bersalin and mase dah nak smpai waktu tu sapu lagi supaya bwh tu licin. aku mmg da plan insyaallah nak buat perineum massage and akan guna oil ni la kot. lagi satu soap dia yg boleh buang daki n kerak2 hitam kat bdn.

TANAMERA postnatal care set contains 11 products that :

• Are formulated based on traditional Malay, Chinese and Ayurvedic postnatal treatments to provide a natural solution for new mother’s body to heal from the inside-out in a balanced manner, hormonally and physically.
• Are made from plant-based 100% natural ingredients with emphasis on the use of tropical herbs and essential oils, with no artificial coloring, fragrance, preservative, toxic chemical nor ‘jamu’ which are harmful to babies.
• Are designed to provide care during pregnancy to help prepare for smoother delivery, and care during confinement to help new mothers rest, recover and rejuvenate to prepregnancy body and shape, in the shortest time possible. - ini slh satu part yg aku bekenan. sbb care dr before besalin  smpai tgh pantang.
• Are breastfeeding friendly and with aromatherapy effect to calm and soothe new mothers to faster recovery.

 Ok now sbb dah telebih excited psl bende ni aku listkan mane2 yg jadi feveret aku.. tp untuk the most favorite aku letak paling atas. sbb ape sahaja yg boleh memudahkan proses aku bersalin, itulah yg paling mendapat tempat di hati ku..

 

1) VCO

 

Benefits::

"VCO helps burn fat for energy and is known to promote weight loss"

 

For Prenatal Use:

• To moisturise and prevent stretch marks, apply on damp skin.
• To minimise tearing and need for episiotomy, massage VCO on perineum area and consume 1 teaspoon daily, 3-4 weeks before baby’s due date.

  For Contraction and Labour Use:

• To minimise perineal tearing and for smoother delivery, at the onset of labour pains, consume a few teaspoons at regular intervals, and apply generously at perineum area

  For Postnatal Use:

• To fade stretch marks and moisturize breasts to soothe and prevent cracked nipples, apply on damp skin
• To help lose excess weight, consume 2 tablespoons daily
• As a baby massage oil

  
2) Bengkung

The material is unbleached cotton which is soft yet durable for hours of comfort. This wrap will retain its shape and is made of all natural cotton which mininimises risk of irritation, unlike other synthetic materials.  It is easy to put on and most comfortable when worn under loose clothes.

Benefits : 

• Provides full support from below the breast down to the hip and buttocks to aid in the release of water retention.
• Designed to provide firm control of flabby, sagging abdominal skin.
• For the recovery and firming of the abdominal muscles and tissues.
• For the toning of stretched skin in the torso region.
• Encouragement of the uterus  to shrink and recover to its pre-pregnancy size.
• Supports back posture while breast feeding.

3) Brown Formulation Soap

Benefits:

• Gently removes dead skin cells and stimulates blood circulation.
• Improves overall skin condition.
• Effective in relieving skin rashes and minor skin conditions.

(sental mane2 daki or kerak2 itam kt bdn. sesetengah pregnant mom ade kuar bende2 itam ni. tapi alhmdllh so far aku xde lagi. tp mane nk tau nnt ade kuar pulak. so standby)

So ini lah barang2 yg aku bekenan kat Tanamera ni. yg lain2 tu sume set pon ade KOT. I welcome any opinions, suggestions and comments.

**Untuk Nona Roguy (NR) aku buat pas lunch pulak.

An inferiority complex of myself

Hye kawan2.

mcm nak mintak pelempang tak intro aku. haha

Sekarang update sume pon pasal aku and baby. behtu takkan nak citer psl kawen lagi.
Ur time is over Fiena.
Tapi bila tengok baju2 pengantin yg cantek2 terus pandang perut sndiri.
Happy and sad.

Happy sebab pengalaman kawen (yg sape taknak kan.haha) aku da tempuh. even ade problem yg miserable tapi takpe ah.
Put aside. because marrying the love of my life and carrying his baby is the most precious moment ever kalau nak dibandingkan dengan org2 yg x berhati perut menganiaya wedding org lain.

Sad sbb bila skang leh tengokkkk je baju nikah. nak sarung smpai peha pon tak celuih.
Lengan yg dah x fit dan menggeleber. baju2 honeymoon dl dah takde ruang dan kesempatan nak masuk untuk fit badan saya yg gemok i can say.

Im not complaining.org keliling aku akan marah aku kalau aku bising n rendah diri dengan keadaan badan yg dah mcm mengandung 7 bulan, tapi perut yg mmg nmpk baru nk masuk 5 bulan. (boleh paham ayat simbolik kan?)

Tapi org yg lain yg jugak di keliling aku keep on telling me, mentioned yg i look fatter, chubbier, ugly and all other hash word (at least for me).

Dah la aku ni mmg sensitip org nye, bila ckp bende2 tu xtau nk bangga - Hey yes i am fat because i am carrying our baby. dont u think i'm lucky enuf for this? ataupon nak sedeh - owh org lain pn ngandung tapi x gemok mcm aku.

Dulu ade kwn penah tanye, kat mane nye yg aku gemok, kenapa asek2 kecoh psl aku gemok. to be clear, mase tu mmg aku slim abes (im not saying yg aku slim yg hot. mind u) tapi aku slim yg smpai badan nampak melengkung. muka cengkung smpai gigi yg sedia mcm terkedepan sket terus nmpk jongang.

and maybe dorang mase tu pk yg aku saje2 ckp sbb nak tarik perhatian n mintak dorang ckp, eh kau xgemok. apesal sebok nak diet.
ataupon lebih seronok bila aku dpt dengar Hey body kau dah ok and cantek macam model. takyah nak diet.

A biggg NOOOO.

I'm not that kind of person. I have this one inferiority complex since i was small.

Dulu i am a big fat child. masa darjah 4 berat aku 40kg, darjah 5, 50kg, darjah 6 60 kg.
Can u imagine??.
kalau pegi beraya, makcik pakcik akan tanye aku umur berapa. and tekejut tiap kali ibu ayah aku bgtau.

Berapa ratus org keliling aku yg keep on mentioning and telling me on my face that i am not suit with my age.

Yes makcik i know. u are the 578 person told me this.

gajah?, gemok?, besar?, sharifah aini (sebab kebetulan tahi lalat aku pn byk kt muka)?, badak?, bontot besar?, peha besar?
apa sahaja yg menggambarkan kegemukan, suma mmg dah tertulis kat dahi aku agaknye. so dorang yg nampak maybe hanya tolong bacakan untuk aku *sarcasm*

I am the owner of a big body frame and aku pernah kurus sekurus 57kg.
Maybe utk org lain 57kg adalah gemok. hanis zalikha yg lagi tinggi dari aku pn berat 50 ++ je kot.
xsampai pn 57kg.
tapi sbb rangka aku besar, so the lightest i can go is 57kg. itupon dah org panggil tiang electric, papan plywood.

See gemok salah, kurus pon salah.

aku kurus masa tu sbb aku bersukan, lumbe lari, rentas desa (menang pulak tu. haha), pegi balik sekolah jalan kaki and pressure for SPM.
jgn tanye kenapa aku gemok pn kuat lari. sbb aku pn pelik. konon2 saje masuk pertandingan, aleh2 menang. hahah

masuk U, jumpe boyfren happy lain macam. almaklum org baru kurus n ade org minat. so die nye batak lain macam.

Aku pon makan tak hengat dunia. terus naik smpai 70kg. T_T.

alaa panjang lak citer nye. padahal nak citer bende lain tadi.

pendekkan

My lovely boyfren (masa tu) ajak kawen 2011. mase tu 2010. so berbaki setahun. aku struggle.
Aku diet sungguh2.

No ice, No rice, No carbonat drink, only protein and lots of vegetables selama setahun.

On my wedding day, my weight was 58kg.

Thats why i have a flat tummy, flat bontot and breast. (hahah)

So people out there, please think first before you speak. Some words that u might think as a joke, turn to be not- a-joke-at-all for some people.
You might hurt them (read: me).
Because u exactly dont know their history.

Owh one 'intresting' story to share about this person who they think it is just a joke.

My friend was suffering SLE for years. She have to eat about 10-20 pills each day and one of them is steroid.

This steroid boleh buatkan si pemakan jadi bengkak2 muka. macam sembab.

1st day at Uni, some boys called her - beruang.
sebab pipi dia tembam sgt.

kurang ajar tak??

Fibroid - Result from specialist.

Sape2 yg tak penah baca and tau pasal doc suspect aku ade fibroid in pregnancy, gi la baca kat sini dulu.

Last friday i was referred to specialist, and Alhamdulillah the doctor said
"I dont see any fibroid in there"

Syukur.

Bila tengok the baby yg active beguling dalam perut.
Doctor pon ckp, "wahh active baby ni. kita kene kejar dia".

Aku seronok dengar. sbb selama ni aku dok fikir yg baby aku takleh nk move around. sbb ade fibroid tu.


Since kalau ade fibroid aku kene sentiasa refer pada pakar, aku tanya habes2 dgn doctor tu. Betul ke aku xde fibroid and ok ke klu aku continue checkup ngan MO.
She said Yes, no problem.

Yahoo, xperlu amek cuti, amek half day, amek mc utk pegi check up kat pakar.

Kalau checkup kat MO leh buat malam waktu abes kerja.

Syukur Ya Allah. Mudah sket urusan aku.


Owh aku ada tanya doctor tu, boleh ke tengok gender.

Doctor ckp boleh try.

Then tetibe baby pusing bagi position ngam2 tuttt dia kat dpn camera. kehkeh.

And its a  _____________..

I asked the doctor, how many percent we can assure this.
She replied - 90%.

I dont care about the gender. cume nk tau cpt2 sbb senang nk beli brg. and senang nk carik nama.
Dulu pon ade ckp nama dah ada.

Tapi being me yg sentiasa x tetap pendirian, nama tu sentiasa berubah2.

Hubs ckp xkesah nak letak dpn or belakang dia ape.
Yg penting kene ade _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _.

Tetibe teringat Lisa. Laki dia pon dah tetapkan nama yg kene ade utk anak dorang.

*****


Baby, Mama look forward to meet u again on this 11th May.

i miss this figure...

 

Baby, doakan lepas kamu keluar nanti mama dpt (read: berjaya) diet dan kembali ringan seperti dulu ye. 

Sume org dok mention aku gemok gemok, besar, tembam, chubby tak macam dulu, dah lain, siap tanye berat. kau paham tak aku tengah mengandung!!. stresssss.

Tapi sape soh kau gain sebulan 4kg. kahkah.

Baby bump

14 weeks

17 weeks

18 weeks. gemok nyeee T_T

apesai tahh gambar makin lame makin kecik. owhh gambar je makin kecik. tp size bdn makin membesar. MIND YOU. haha

Anak penawar duka. ececeh.

Ya Allah byk sgt dugaan. Maybe sbb aku kene handle sorang2. Nak menangesss. Call husband whole day meeting. Punya bz smpai hubs ckp nak berak pon tak sempat. Aku tunggu bonus dia 7 bulan. kalau tak dpt 7 bulan mmg aku pekak kan telinga dia hari2. keja smpai xsempat nak berak tapi bonus ciput. kahkah

Ok tu statement isteri tak besyukur. abaikan.

Aku stress. tapi alhamdulillah dpt call dr husband, insyaallah akn settle sume masalah nanti. nak citer masalah ape pn aku malas nk pk. hectic sgt dr pagi tadi. selagi xdpt call laki aku selagi tu stress sbb xdpt settle.

abaikan.

anak mmg penenang jiwa. belum kuar dah tenangkan aku. dlm perut ade rase gedik2. rasa moving time aku ngah stress call sane call sini tadi. aku kecoh die pn gamaknya nk kecoh sama guling sane sini. at least aku tak rase keseorangan time2 stress gini.

week 18. my baby's the size of a sweet potato!

your baby at 18 weeks

• Can you believe she's yawning, hiccuping, sucking and swallowing?
• And she's twisting, rolling, punching and kicking, too -- and she's big enough that you might be able to feel her doing it!

She's about 5.6 inches long and about 6.7 ounces now and she keeps on growing rapidly. (That's why you're probably feeling so hungry.)  THAT IS WHY I ALWAYS FEEL HUNGRAYYY!! kehkeh. 

pregnancy symptoms at 18 weeks

• Baby's kicks -- they're getting stronger! ( i feel it everyday. i love u baby)
• Swollen feet and/or hands. An annoying pregnancy symptom, but nothing to worry about as long as the swelling isn't sudden or severe. ( belum rasa lagi. xtau la klu xperasan. sbb mmg da dasar gemok byk lemak. swollen pn leh xperasan. kehkeh)
• Back aches. Baby's putting a lot of pressure on your insides. (Yes, its killing me sometimes. but everything for u baby)
• Leg cramps. They can be a sign of dehydration, so drink up! ( tak rasa lagi. sbb i am a fan of mineral water )
• Varicose veins, a product of all that extra pressure on your circulatory system. (ape ni. xpaham. haha)
• Trouble sleeping. Your mind is working overtime and you're getting more and more uncomfortable. (owhh tidur ku lena aja dong. kecuali mlm bangun sbb nk kench)
• Increased pressure on the veins in your nose may be causing nosebleeds. (tidak)

source

Baby first kick (week 17++)

Malam tu balik lambat. sebok dok tengok husband ajar junior training silat utk masuk pertandingan. mmg mcm2 stunt la laki aku buat. terbang, tendang tumbuk bagai.

yang aku tak padan mak buyong, nk jugak take part ajar budak2 perempuan. siap buat gaya tendang gara2 nk tunjuk cara outer kick. kalau member x tegur soh stop aku rasa aku sama naik ngan dorang dah. haha

malam sebelum tdo as usual hubs urut2 kaki ngn minyak panas mustajab dunia herbs yg nora danish jadi model tu. detail aku explain. haha. konon2 nk bagi panas kaki n prevent angin dari masuk. tapi sebenarnye 2 in 1. moga2 dapat la kawal tumbesaran peha n lengan aku. kehkeh

tetibe aku terasa ade satu inner kick. dari dlm perut. tekejut. terangkat sket kaki aku. terus btau hubs.

hubs sambil gosok2 perut aku ckp "ooo tengok papa tendang2 dia pn nk tiru ye"

yg best sbb selama ni aku dok kompius nk bezakan gas dgn movement baby. tapi mlm tu aku betul2 dpt bezakan. and the best part was, the baby's first kick was right after he/she 'saw' the father's stunt.

senang aku nk citer kat die besok. kehkeh.

and macam aku ade bace kat baby center, selepas satu kick atau movement yg kita rasa, nanti kita akn boleh rasa bende tu selalu. tapi utk nk dpt rasa the first kick and movement tu mmg sangat tak sabar.

and i hope my baby ok dlm tu. since aku dpt tau aritu baby xleh gerak byk sbb fibroid. and movement yg aku rase dlm perut ni dah sedapkan hati aku. aku hrp baby lagi besar dr ketulan tu.

so baby pegi tendang2 and lawan ketulan dlm rahim mama tu ok.
please fight for your rigt. haha.